Although women are more vulnerable than men and tend to love harder, they are also aware of their self-worth. So, when a woman is mistreated and realizes that her relationship is no longer a positive experience, she decides to leave without turning back.
A quote from the novel Paper Towns reads, “It is so hard to leave – until you leave. And then it is the easiest thing in the world.”
When you give a woman less than she deserves, know that she is determined and decisive enough. If she decides to walk away, she will do it at all costs.
So, if you love a woman, treat her well and show her that she means the world to you. Otherwise, she will choose to leave and not turn back.
5 Thoughts A Woman Has When She Leaves for Good
1. There’s No Reason for Her to Stay
When the relationship comes to a point where nothing can be done to make it work, the woman realizes that there is no reason to stay. If there are children involved, this will make matters more difficult.
But, when a woman has tried everything she could, she will eventually reach a point that leaving is her only option. After all, a woman will offer unconditional love and care to her partner unless she reaches a point that she is losing herself along the way.
2. She’s Been Alone for Too Long
“Women leave for many reasons, but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me, one that I want men to understand: Women leave because their man is not present. He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing… the list is long. These aren’t bad men. They’re good fathers. They support their family. They’re nice, likable. But they take their wife for granted. They’re not present. ” marriage counselor Justin Schanfarber explains.
The point is that a woman needs a partner that she can turn to and have their support when she needs it. If she is belittled instead of being supported and uplifted, she will eventually move forward and try to be the best version of herself.
3. She’s No Longer Loved
Loving a woman is the only gift she needs. If she feels loved, she will reciprocate that and show you that you are loved too. This doesn’t mean that all women are faithful when loved by their partners, as some women simply fail to recognize and appreciate the love they are given. But, a faithful women who appreciates a healthy relationship will care for her when she is treated the right way.
“We don’t see just how important she is, till she no longer is…with us. We don’t see how much love actually matters to us because we’re too busy watching the game. Our needs matter too, but we have to love her always, not just when we’re about to lose her. Not just till we get her back. Not just in the moments we think matter, because all moments matter,” Mark Groves advices.
4. She’s Done Being Taken for Granted
When a woman is always giving but never receiving, there is no point in expecting her to live this way forever. When she has exhausted all efforts, she has nothing left to offer. This is the point when she chooses to walk away and break loose from the things that are draining her. To grow. To prosper. To build herself.
“I used to be that girl. I used to have my heart on my sleeve all the time, putting so much time and effort into every relationship or almost-relationship even though it was not reciprocated… But things don’t always happen that way. With every heartbreak, I began to realize what I want, and what I deserve,” Aeen Always explains.
5. She Knows She Deserves Better
When a woman doesn’t receive what she deserves, she will eventually walk away and move on. Communication is one of the keys to making a relationship work, but most men tend to underestimate its importance.
If a woman communicates to you her wishes and needs, you need to treat her the best way possible. Otherwise, she will only realize that you are refusing her view on making the relationship work, and walk away.